Sexuality supports, helping you recover and increase your pleasure and intimacy.

Vulva Pleasure Masterclass

Learn vulva massage on yourself or with a partner. This is for anyone with a vulva who is wanting to increase their pleasure  or maybe recover it from experiencing things like dryness, numbness, changes in pleasure or pain. 

Increase sensitivity and erection

Learn the wonders of soft-penis pleasure! Designed for people with changes in erection to increase or recover sensation and function, but is beneficial for anyone and everyone! 

Suitable for solo practice or with a partner.

Libido Recovery Masterclass

An online masterclass for couples to reconnect their intimacy and desire after a cancer diagnosis. 

Based on neurological and sexological concepts, this course is a step-by-step guided process for you to get back your fun, laughter, affection, libido and yumminess! Tess has literally been here and done this to recover libido after treatments. It's getting amazing results for people.

Intimacy and Cancer, the book!

'A Better Normal; Your Guide To Rediscovering Intimacy After Cancer' is your guide for people wanting support navigating changes in sexuality after treatments. This book is not only for those diagnosed, but also partners and healthcare professionals. Tess is a clinician, educators and somatic sexologist, so this book is BRIMMING with practical solutions to any and all things intimacy and cancer covering topics such as:

  • Changes in libido and it's recovery
  • How to get back your arousal and orgasm 
  • Dating after a diagnosis
  • Navigating pain and fatigue
  • Communicating with partners/clinicians
  • 11 practical and fun activities to reconnect intimately with yourself and/or a partner
  • Changes in body image and how to get your confidence back!
  • When sex hurts or are dry and sore
  • Changes in erection
  • And so much more!

Free Info Webinar

A webinar offering support and solutions for anyone diagnosed with cancer, and partners. Covering topics such as how treatments impact us sexually, but also ways to recover our intimacy and libido. 

The 'Ohnut'

Feel closer. Connect deeper (but not too deep!) with Ohnut—the intimate wearable, changing how we approach painful sex.

Can be used on toys or a penis, to reduce the length and depth of penetration. It's super comfy for the wearer and the receiver, and is adjustable for your needs.

The Ziggy - by OBDO

An accessible sex toy, designed for in-chair seated use for wheelchair (and bed if you like!) pleasure. Designed for all body types.

Designed by :
  • Sexual Health Experts
  • Occupational Therapists
  • The Disability Community.
  • NDIS eligible
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Passionfruit: Sensuality Shop

An amazing online store for all ranges of intimacy aids, toys, resources and helpful staff so you can find what's right for you.

Sexuality clinician, somatic sexologist, sexuality educator, best-selling author, cancer survivor

Meet your presenter! Tess (pronouns: they/them) is a sexuality clinician working in hospitals and community settings in Australia, addressing sexuality for people with brain injury, spinal cord injury, musculoskeletal injury, disability, chronic illness, neurological conditions, cancer and more. They have also been educating people Australia wide and globally online on the topics of sexuality, intimacy, communication and pleasure for nearing a decade. After being diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer at the age of 36 they experienced first hand the sexual impacts of treatments, and also, the lack of supports on this oh-so-important topic. This was Tess's inspiration to use their knowledge and expertise to coach and support the millions out there with suffering or changed sexuality, regardless of gender, race, ability, orientation and health status; because we all deserve love and connection. 

As scary as this may feel, you will be surprised how normal (and fun!) this journey can be!

Tess is a registered member and practitioner of, and adheres to the codes and ethics of, the Society of Australian Sexologists (SAS) and of the Somatic Sex Educator's Association of Australasia (SSEAA). They are also proudly a member of the LGBTQIA+ community and Tess's supports and resources are inclusive.